March 8, 2024
Navigating and Celebrating
I’m feeling good, or I’m feeling bad. I’m feeling happy, or I’m feeling sad. Life feels great, or not so great. It…
February 29, 2024
Expanding Our Concept of Love
My mentor and coach Lance Secretan says “… that love is to the soul what oxygen is to the body.” Clearly, we all want…
February 15, 2024
Control Your Horse for a Better Life
Horses are amazing creatures. I really love horses and I am so very grateful for the many years I spent with them, and…
February 1, 2024
Stop Ruminating – Make Room for Positivity, Love and Joy
The ability to engage in deliberate and focused thinking on the issues and challenges in our lives is a real strength.…
January 18, 2024
Modern Heroes
I recently finished a book by Stephen Ambrose that I really enjoyed called Undaunted Courage. It details the famous…
October 7, 2023
Your Morning Routine
Your Morning Routine – Tips to Jumpstarting a Better Day How do you start your day? Is it haphazard or deliberate? Do…
July 29, 2023
Stop Rescuing
Are You a Rescuer? Hello, my name is Coach Billy, and I’m a recovering rescuer. In my past life, I squandered a lot of…
April 20, 2023
Uprighting – Agency Through Awareness
Even good relationships are sometimes difficult. Going through a high conflict separation, from what perhaps was a…
April 20, 2023
Gratitude Can Change Your Life
This post is a collaboration with my friend Dan McKinnon. Dan holds a Ph.D. in Education, a Master's in Counselling,…
March 14, 2023
Forgiveness
Forgiveness One of my favourite podcasters is Dave Asprey, whom I’ve followed for years on the topics of nutrition and…
February 14, 2023
First Principles
A case could be made that the idea of first principles started with the biblical story of the Ten Commandments. As the…
February 7, 2023
Learning and Growing
I love reading books. I’m determined to find more time for reading. Part of my challenge is that I can’t seem to read…
January 25, 2023
Rethinking Goals
I must admit, I’ve never been much for setting goals. Even before I understood my reasons why I didn’t feel comfortable…
January 13, 2023
Be Cautious With Labels
In my coaching work, I frequently encounter coachees who have convincing labels for themselves. For example, they tell…
December 29, 2022
Make the Ask
As parents, we always have hopes and dreams for our children. It seems I wasn't all that typical with mine. My biggest…
December 5, 2022
Ebb and Flow
Everyone knows that to improve as an athlete, we need to train our bodies. We need to acquire or improve physical…
November 18, 2022
Pause and Reset
This guest post is a collaboration with my good friend and inspiration, Marie Knapp. Marie has a Ph.D. in education and…
October 21, 2022
Managing Stress
We all have our share of stress. It seems to be an unavoidable aspect of everyday life in our fast-paced culture. Most…
July 28, 2022
Name Your Mind
You are not your mind! Neuroscience and psychology tell us that 95 percent of our mind operates from subconscious…
June 30, 2022
Affirmations Have Power
Have you ever been at a gathering, and a person you have met before forgets your name? They say, “I’m sorry, I’m just…
May 31, 2022
Our Natural Health Service
“Whether tis nobler in the mind to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, or to take arms against a sea of…
May 4, 2022
Journaling
I am forever grateful to have stumbled across an in-depth article on the art of journaling on the Daily Stoic in 2019,…
March 31, 2022
Boundaries
For most of my life, I don’t recall hearing the term “boundaries” as it applies to relationships. Lately, it seems the…
February 28, 2022
Vulnerability Is Your Superpower
Big boys don’t cry. Suck it up buttercup. Be a man. The socialization and conditioning of the male mind starts…
February 14, 2022
Self-care Isn’t Selfish
Self-care is all the things you do to take care of your health and well-being in the key dimensions of physical,…
January 24, 2022
How Is Your Diet?
How is your diet? I have a mini poster on my inspiration board. It reads: Your diet is not only what you eat.…
January 18, 2022
Frameworks
One of my favourite podcasts is Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais. Dr. Gervais is a brilliant psychologist who…
January 9, 2022
The Lost Art of Thinking
I’m a bit weird, I know. Every year in January I spend a fair bit of time dissecting the past year and looking ahead…
December 15, 2021
Know Your Core Values – It Matters
“Who are you?” he asked me. My coach and his darn questions! I pondered for a moment and responded, “What do you…
November 30, 2021
Responding vs Reacting
It happened in an instant. I was out with my dog Dexter. We were passing a house with a couple carrying groceries from…
November 18, 2021
There is Life on the Other Side
I recently had a long time friend over for supper. We had a great catch-up as we hadn’t meaningfully connected in some…
November 8, 2021
Managing Setbacks
When we experience a personal setback or crisis, what should we be able to expect in terms of support from our friends…